Gentlemen ( I would say ladies but our lady members are def not the folk I am trying to reach with this post LOL !!)
This week we have had three newish members up sticks and leave
Looking at their reception I am hardly surprised
This is not something new either, but something that has been going on for about a year now.. Peeps joining,, trying to get a toe hold and being kicked in the balls by apparently nasty remarks
Whilst a good many of the posts could be said to be tongue in cheek they look like they are just rude, nasty and quite frankly unwelcoming
Most of the posters are old school and are very familiar with each other and the way this ere' forum goes..
Not one of you would I like to lose as you are the cement that holds it all together and makes it such a fookin crazy place to be !
I would ask though, that those new to the forum are given a bit of a break.. let em settle in.. let em come to terms with being a member of a forum that is infested with evil minded bastards :-0)
Let them start to join in a bit rather than trying to stamp on their necks the moment they join
Two of those who have left simply said the whole site revolved around a little group of folk who obviously think they are special, the third left because of receiving virtually nothing bar abuse.. and having looked back I can fully understand what has been said
I know you lot are harmless and do not mean to be dickheads ( with one or two notable exceptions ) but the only thing a lot of newby's see is unfunny snotty, catty, childish remarks..
Give em a chance lads and lasses.. perrrleeeeaaase ! @tu*
This week we have had three newish members up sticks and leave
Looking at their reception I am hardly surprised
This is not something new either, but something that has been going on for about a year now.. Peeps joining,, trying to get a toe hold and being kicked in the balls by apparently nasty remarks
Whilst a good many of the posts could be said to be tongue in cheek they look like they are just rude, nasty and quite frankly unwelcoming
Most of the posters are old school and are very familiar with each other and the way this ere' forum goes..
Not one of you would I like to lose as you are the cement that holds it all together and makes it such a fookin crazy place to be !
I would ask though, that those new to the forum are given a bit of a break.. let em settle in.. let em come to terms with being a member of a forum that is infested with evil minded bastards :-0)
Let them start to join in a bit rather than trying to stamp on their necks the moment they join
Two of those who have left simply said the whole site revolved around a little group of folk who obviously think they are special, the third left because of receiving virtually nothing bar abuse.. and having looked back I can fully understand what has been said
I know you lot are harmless and do not mean to be dickheads ( with one or two notable exceptions ) but the only thing a lot of newby's see is unfunny snotty, catty, childish remarks..
Give em a chance lads and lasses.. perrrleeeeaaase ! @tu*