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What the ? Woman must have a mental issue

T.C

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Our eldest cat is 15. He has always liked to roam in the summer but lives indoors in the winter, so at this time of year we can go for 2 or 3 days without seeing him, although we know he comes home for a flying visit at night when we are in bed for his nosh.

He often pops over the road to visit his mum and sister, he sometimes goes next door but one we reckon to see his girlfriend, and other times he goes wondering up the street just for the fun of it. One day when my daughter still lived at home he followed her for about a mile and a half to the Railway station, like I say he is a bit of a lad.

He has been hit twice by a car, but that has not deterred him from sitting in the road defying drivers to run him over. 1st time he smashed his jaw and broke his sternum. 2nd time he was dragged and skinned resulting in about 300+ stitches, but he is still one of the daftest friendliest cats you could hope for.

Anyway, about 5 pm last night he comes wondering in. As usual wanted his dinner, wolfed down a few mouthfuls and off he goes again and from us its the usual "Thank you for visiting your local cat hotel" type comment.

At lunchtime today, we were just starting our lunch when the phone rings. It is a vets surgery about 4 miles away calling to say that our ginger has been handed in. We were surprised, but he was uninjured and in good health, so with that me and the Mrs got the cat basket out jumped in the car and headed off.

It turns out that a woman who lives no more than about 100 yards from us had called the vets to say that she had found this ginger cat rummaging in her shed and rubbish bins. She then went onto say that the cat visited her regularly and had done for a long time and to this end lived inside her house for much of the time, and as she had fed him she would like to know if she could keep him? :oops: But she went on to say that he was as good as being her cat.

When the vet said No, she then asked if they really had to tell us so that she could keep him. This raised a few alarm bells on the part of the vets unsurprisingly.

Anyway, we have our cats chipped, so when he was taken in, they examined him for any illness or injury, they checked his chip hence the phone call to us.

When we arrived, the vet said that the woman was desperate to keep him. We explained that he does go wandering, but he always comes home for his dinner, and he is not a cat that lives indoors except in winter and he certainly does not rummage.

Anyway, on the plus side, Ginge had a free medical once over and was given a clean bill of health which is something, but it opened up a load of questions from our perspective.

If she wanted to keep him, why did she phone the vets? Why did she not just keep quiet? She reckoned that he spends most of his time with her and her family which is total bollocks!

Why did she go to this particular vet 4 + miles away when there are 3 others within easy waking distance and certainly more local?

Why did she say he was rummaging in her shed and then lived indoors when that was clearly a lie?

Why is she so keen to keep our boy rather than go and acquire her own cat?

Strange woman, which makes me think that she must have a mental health issue.

So we have come to the conclusion that next time he is injured or ill, she can half the bill (won't tell her that he is insured ;)(y) ) and maybe we should encourage him to return to this woman with some of the livestock he is prone to bringing home (he is a hunter)

We told the vets that they were welcome to give this female our address and if she turns up, we will have an interesting one way conversation, but if he does go missing properly we will know where to start looking.

Funny part is, we picked him up (and as usual he was happy to see us and wanted his usual fuss) brought him home and no so much as a murmur, he came in, fed his face and buggered straight off out again! :rolleyes:

Strange woman, strange couple of hours.....

I write this purely to try and help me figure this out myself, so sorry for boring you :(
 

derek kelly

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Mad cat woman syndrome, lonely spinster seeks company of every cat in the Universe & calls them all her fur babies, usually ends up dead & eaten by the cats
 

ogr1

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She probably suspected he was chipped
& not realising it's on a national data base.
Hence travelling further to chance
her arm...so to speak.
Silly women has peed on her chips.
Does she really think that she had ownership of Ginge?
Cat's as you know will only do what they
want and sod everyone else.
So long as he's happy and safe.
 
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T.C

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Well did she? Asking for a friend.
I have no idea? :p

Mad cat woman syndrome, lonely spinster seeks company of every cat in the Universe & calls them all her fur babies, usually ends up dead & eaten by the cats
Apparently not. She claimed that he often waits outside and waits for the "family" to arrive home which is crap. He does however recognise the sound of my car and the Mrs car when we come home and does wait for me in the evening as he likes a big fuss as I get out of the car, and he likes to lie on the bonnet as it is nice and warm.

But, we are starting to wonder if she might have been responsible for the loss of his sister 10+ years ago. She was a tiny tortoiseshell and she did not come home one night. We always assumed she was taken by a fox or something as no remains were ever found, but after today? Who knows.

Weird lying woman it seems
 

Duck n Dive

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Sounds like she was hoping for a different answer!

Cats do wander and generally those that roam can have more than one "home".

We used to have three that lived to quite old ages, but long gone now. Ours roamed during the day but always came home at night. They stayed in at night either in the house or in the large garden shed.

Our neighbour has a ginger cat that probably spends almost as much time with us as them. When he started to happily visit us we did mention it and asked if they were OK with him coming in the house. We don't feed him, just gets a little milk from time to time. If they weren't happy we wouldn't have let him in the house, now he treats it like it's his.

This cat roams and doesn't go in at night. Sometimes it seems he spends time with us when he wants some peace and quiet, they have two small kids and a dog.
Very occasionally he hangs around our place for two or three days and once they asked if we'd seen him as he'd not been around and they were worried.

Reason I say this if your cat is like that but she feeds him it may be that the times you don't see him he really is visiting her, especially if she feeds him.
As for rummaging in bins, most cats are not averse to poking around anywhere just for amusement.

When we had our cats (or rather were they're servants!) we know they'd wander around visiting others.

She may well be a bit batty and half hoping she could "officially" have him acknowledged as her cat.

I'd be inclined initially to approach it that she means no harm but may just not entirely understand the nature of cats! If you're talking to her maybe start with "thanks for taking him to the vet, but he's fine, just doesn't like to be cooped up" and see what reaction you get.
 

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When we moved into our previous house there was a tatty old 4’x4’ shed, the door was half off, we noticed on several occasions a white cat emerging from the shed, when we pulled the shed down the cat disappeared, a few weeks our next door neighbour told us that she’d been talking to a woman a few streets away who’s white cat had recently returned after being missing for three weeks.
 

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Our eldest cat is 15. He has always liked to roam in the summer but lives indoors in the winter, so at this time of year we can go for 2 or 3 days without seeing him, although we know he comes home for a flying visit at night when we are in bed for his nosh.

He often pops over the road to visit his mum and sister, he sometimes goes next door but one we reckon to see his girlfriend, and other times he goes wondering up the street just for the fun of it. One day when my daughter still lived at home he followed her for about a mile and a half to the Railway station, like I say he is a bit of a lad.

He has been hit twice by a car, but that has not deterred him from sitting in the road defying drivers to run him over. 1st time he smashed his jaw and broke his sternum. 2nd time he was dragged and skinned resulting in about 300+ stitches, but he is still one of the daftest friendliest cats you could hope for.

Anyway, about 5 pm last night he comes wondering in. As usual wanted his dinner, wolfed down a few mouthfuls and off he goes again and from us its the usual "Thank you for visiting your local cat hotel" type comment.

At lunchtime today, we were just starting our lunch when the phone rings. It is a vets surgery about 4 miles away calling to say that our ginger has been handed in. We were surprised, but he was uninjured and in good health, so with that me and the Mrs got the cat basket out jumped in the car and headed off.

It turns out that a woman who lives no more than about 100 yards from us had called the vets to say that she had found this ginger cat rummaging in her shed and rubbish bins. She then went onto say that the cat visited her regularly and had done for a long time and to this end lived inside her house for much of the time, and as she had fed him she would like to know if she could keep him? :oops: But she went on to say that he was as good as being her cat.

When the vet said No, she then asked if they really had to tell us so that she could keep him. This raised a few alarm bells on the part of the vets unsurprisingly.

Anyway, we have our cats chipped, so when he was taken in, they examined him for any illness or injury, they checked his chip hence the phone call to us.

When we arrived, the vet said that the woman was desperate to keep him. We explained that he does go wandering, but he always comes home for his dinner, and he is not a cat that lives indoors except in winter and he certainly does not rummage.

Anyway, on the plus side, Ginge had a free medical once over and was given a clean bill of health which is something, but it opened up a load of questions from our perspective.

If she wanted to keep him, why did she phone the vets? Why did she not just keep quiet? She reckoned that he spends most of his time with her and her family which is total bollocks!

Why did she go to this particular vet 4 + miles away when there are 3 others within easy waking distance and certainly more local?

Why did she say he was rummaging in her shed and then lived indoors when that was clearly a lie?

Why is she so keen to keep our boy rather than go and acquire her own cat?

Strange woman, which makes me think that she must have a mental health issue.

So we have come to the conclusion that next time he is injured or ill, she can half the bill (won't tell her that he is insured ;)(y) ) and maybe we should encourage him to return to this woman with some of the livestock he is prone to bringing home (he is a hunter)

We told the vets that they were welcome to give this female our address and if she turns up, we will have an interesting one way conversation, but if he does go missing properly we will know where to start looking.

Funny part is, we picked him up (and as usual he was happy to see us and wanted his usual fuss) brought him home and no so much as a murmur, he came in, fed his face and buggered straight off out again! :rolleyes:

Strange woman, strange couple of hours.....

I write this purely to try and help me figure this out myself, so sorry for boring you :(
He is doing well to be getting around at fifteen…. from our experience with two of ours something to possibly consider is moggy may be getting a bit cranky in the brain department at that age and behaviours may be changing in ways that might not be expected…while you may well have a crazy cat woman it is possible that the cat is doing stuff that it hasn’t done before.
 

T.C

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I'd be inclined initially to approach it that she means no harm but may just not entirely understand the nature of cats! If you're talking to her maybe start with "thanks for taking him to the vet, but he's fine, just doesn't like to be cooped up" and see what reaction you get.
We have no intention on approaching her, but if sh e approaches us well............

Although he is 15, he does nothing different now to what he did as a youngster except struggle a bit more to catch his prey (thank goodness)

We have had a cat with mental issues and so we are familiar with what to look for, but fair comment on raising the point.

She did not need to take him to the vet in the first place, but we are now just putting it down to her being a nutter (although she is middle aged and married with no known medical history according to neighbours) and see what develops over the next week or so..
 

T.C

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He is doing well to be getting around at fifteen…. from our experience with two of ours something to possibly consider is moggy may be getting a bit cranky in the brain department at that age and behaviours may be changing in ways that might not be expected…while you may well have a crazy cat woman it is possible that the cat is doing stuff that it hasn’t done before.
We lost our oldest 2 years ago aged 22, and our first cat when we had when we got married 36 years ago lived to 26, so whilst we have lost a few agt a young age, we have had quite a few survive to a good age.

Our youngest one is now 12, but he never ventures beyond the garden and is very much an indoor car.
 

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We lost our oldest 2 years ago aged 22, and our first cat when we had when we got married 36 years ago lived to 26, so whilst we have lost a few agt a young age, we have had quite a few survive to a good age.

Our youngest one is now 12, but he never ventures beyond the garden and is very much an indoor car.
22 and 26 is astonishing. Most we managed was 18, ironically the only one that died from natural causes, the others were all euthanised for one reason or another.

They are very good friends, and I have arranged for an ex work colleague who specialises in animal portraits to do a sketch montage of all our moggies for Mrs B’s birthday. Mega house points for me.
 

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A black and white cat from 4 doors away moved in with us when I was about 10.
Used to come from time to time but eventually decided out catering was better. My mother cleared the move with the owners.
They owned the garage, attached to their house, and I used to spend a lot of time there. That might have been some of the reason.

There is a legend regarding their dog, that when I began to go to school at the other end of the village the dog used to come to meet me after school. I wouldn't think he did it for long because I only have a vague recollection that it might have happened.
 

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Our first cat disappeared for well over a week, we assumed the worst…. she finally turned up very early one morning and meowed us awake from the front doorstep…where she proudly presented us with a very large koi carp as a ‘welcome home’ present.
 

Squag1

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Our first cat disappeared for well over a week, we assumed the worst…. she finally turned up very early one morning and meowed us awake from the front doorstep…where she proudly presented us with a very large koi carp as a ‘welcome home’ present.
Expensive tastes
 

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Our first cat disappeared for well over a week, we assumed the worst…. she finally turned up very early one morning and meowed us awake from the front doorstep…where she proudly presented us with a very large koi carp as a ‘welcome home’ present.
Sadly, ours brought a large Magpie home last week.
 

Vinterceptor

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I write this purely to try and help me figure this out myself, so sorry for boring you :(
Maybe she has been feeding him fairly regularly for years and feels quite attached to him. Decided to go the vet route to genuinely find out if he was chipped and registered to a def owner? You will prob hear no more of it (hopefully).
 
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