Bikerbaby said:bit obvious u've not got a teenage daughter.
blumeeni said:FFS
BB if your genuine please accept my apologies :bow: but there are tabloid and mag agony aunts out there that could give you much better advice than a load of hairy arsed bikers
tootyfluti said:and I`m not saying whether Sam should go for this guy or not, that is entirely up to her but
Age doesn`t have to be an issue, Andy and I got together 10 years ago when he was 40 and I was 18. On Thursday we will have been married for 6 years, yes it has been tough and you really do find out who your real friends are, and no it hasn`t all been the stuff of fairytales, there are days when we want to kill each other, days when no matter what we piss each other person off big style and more often than not times when I know that the only place in the world I belong is with Andy.............. shit got all soppy there and forgot the point of the post c7u8
Sam , have a good hard think about whether this guy is the real deal or just an infatuation, why risk what could be a really good friend iof you have no idea of his feelings :dunno:
B1rdie said:Thank goodness reality strikes! I was begining to think I was in the wrong job listening to some of the crap posted re age. and other BS reasons People should not offer advice based on own good or bad experiences folks remember the Past does not equal the Future.
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Centaur said:50 to 30 ok as both mature.36 to 16 is not. I have really enjoyed your posts BB and you bring a bit of life to us old fogies at times BUT you are still very young and as Wolfie and Pierre says... he is a trusted friend and would probably be mortified if he knew how you felt. Sorry to be a stick in the mud but older in your case should be mid 20s at most. hope I haven't offended you. Please think carefully before you tackle him about it as you could lose a friend and someone to pillion with. Bill.
Centaur said:Whatever you do Sam ignore Birdie. This is his profession and you know what a pile of cr*p physcologists and the like come up with. They want to get us like the Yanks who can't even fart without contacting their shrink before or afterwards. ........Am I joking???? Guess!!! :blush:
derek kelly said:My advice is not from any experiences good or bad, just common sense, just because someones opinions differ from yours does not mean that it is Crap, and if you cannot accept that other people have opinions then yes maybe you are in the wrong job.
I was speaking as a father of two daughters and if either of mine had come to me at 16 and said meet my boyfriend he is 34, I would have had strong words with the feller, however now my youngest is 25 if she were to come to me now and say meet my boyfriend he is 43, then I would be more inclined to accept him.
B1rdie said:You and fathers likeyou are the reason you should not give advice as it is based on your own fears.
Again I made a statement regarding age I did not offer advice.
I very much do hear others advice that does not mean I have to accept it.
You may be suprised to find that girls/women of that age are probably more mature in there outlook and capable of making better decisions than you are.
Common sense does not count in this instance as nobody would have relations beyond certain age differencs and that would be very sad and limiting like your beliefs.
derek kelly said:Judging by your replies I guess centaur is not far from the truth with your profession.
As I have stated I have two daughters, they have grown up into decent respectable people, this is as a result of good advice and decisions made by my wife and myself, so now my daughters have the basics in life to make their own way which they are doing, and they still come to us for advice.
If you think it is moral for a 34 year old man to have relations with a 16 year old girl then I would say come for a look around Wakefield prison.
Centaur said:What a load of cr*p from B1rdie. Don't use common sense????? Sorry B1rdie but assholes like you make me uke: keep your professional advice for those poor suckers whom someone else is paying for them to receive....probably me as a taxpayer. He is too old and unless he is a perv(which I am sure he isn't) he is would probably be horrified. Go and peddle your pc cr*p somewhere else.... man8um
B1rdie said:Ok small minded moron
derek kelly said:If I were to say that to one of the Psychologists at work, I would be told that the reason I made that statement is because I have lost the argument and have a low intellect.