Hmm, I've been out with women with Tats and also without, and in all honesty the statement I saw in an earlier post sums it up, some wimmin can carry a tat off, others cant, so as a compromise could the two of you sit down and discuss where and what tattoo she is looking at getting?? try and persuade her that something "discreet" to start with may be best for a first one, and see where she goes from there!! one of the "ex's" had a small insect under her wrist, it looks like a bit of muck at a glance, it's only when you look hard you realise what it is, she was happy with this, as she knows it's there and I was happy'ish, knowing it didnt look too daft.
You can also point out that when she's 60+ they and tats tend to lose their appeal a tad!!
so discreet may be the way to go for the future sagging, and when they are out of fashion!! :dunno:
My current girlfriend doesnt like Tattoo's anyway, and as I had mine prior to meeting her has accepted me with them, but wouldnt be enthusiastic if I got some more :dunno: