Frustrating

[derek kelly]

Shithouse’s turn to pick kids up from school & have them till 6pm, after the nativity my daughter went to explain to the teacher that she couldn’t take the kids home as their dad was picking them up, the teacher said “yes I know, we’ve had tears from Gracie (8 year old) she said she doesn’t want to go to Daddy’s.
When he dropped them off at Emma’s she asked them if they’d had a nice time, Grace answered “no, Daddy told us to wait downstairs as he was going upstairs to see Sam (his tart) as he’d not seen her all week & he would be five minutes, Grace said he was longer than five minutes & she was upset that he’d not seen them all week but he chose to spend most of his time with Sam.
Grace is a sensitive kid but she’s smart & is working out for herself what an arsehole her father is.
The frustrating thing is he has to have access.

 

[Cougar377]

Shithouse’s turn to pick kids up from school & have them till 6pm, after the nativity my daughter went to explain to the teacher that she couldn’t take the kids home as their dad was picking them up, the teacher said “yes I know, we’ve had tears from Gracie (8 year old) she said she doesn’t want to go to Daddy’s.
When he dropped them off at Emma’s she asked them if they’d had a nice time, Grace answered “no, Daddy told us to wait downstairs as he was going upstairs to see Sam (his tart) as he’d not seen her all week & he would be five minutes, Grace said he was longer than five minutes & she was upset that he’d not seen them all week but he chose to spend most of his time with Sam.
Grace is a sensitive kid but she’s smart & is working out for herself what an arsehole her father is.
The frustrating thing is he has to have access.

I've been watching a mate and his 2 girls go through something similar of the last few years. He and his missus split up when the girls were about 5 and 8 and they're now 21 and 24. His ex was a right bitch...not only to him but to them. Whenever he put money in their savings accounts she'd raid them. In the end he put the lot into trusts for both girls, not to be accessed until they were 21 (and out of her clutches).
Over the years they've been constantly manipulated by her to get at him (despite the fact that they split up because she was knocking off someone else behind his back and moved the guy in when my mate moved out), but as they've grown up they've learned what an evil cow she is towards him. One has now completed uni and left home to become a teacher, the other is looking to join-up (He's ex RN subs and is all for it).

It's been hard to see the effect it's had on him and the girls over the years, but now they've both grown up they're surprisingly level headed and bright girls. All credit to my mate and no thanks at all to their mum.

 

[andyBeaker]

Sadly no qualifications are required to be a parent.

 

[Cougar377]

Sadly no qualifications are required to be a parent.

Or a minimum IQ level.

 

[Centaur]

Sadly no qualifications are required to be a parent.

Don't even need to have opposite sex organs!

Supposed to be the needs of the child and children are best with two parents of opposite sex as role models to say the least.

 

[Malone]

Ok I know male and female - but what is the opposite of unicorn?

 

[Cougar377]

Ok I know male and female - but what is the opposite of unicorn?

Manycorn..? Multicorn...?

 

[Pow-Lo]

I've been watching a mate and his 2 girls go through something similar of the last few years. He and his missus split up when the girls were about 5 and 8 and they're now 21 and 24. His ex was a right bitch...not only to him but to them. Whenever he put money in their savings accounts she'd raid them. In the end he put the lot into trusts for both girls, not to be accessed until they were 21 (and out of her clutches).
Over the years they've been constantly manipulated by her to get at him (despite the fact that they split up because she was knocking off someone else behind his back and moved the guy in when my mate moved out), but as they've grown up they've learned what an evil cow she is towards him. One has now completed uni and left home to become a teacher, the other is looking to join-up (He's ex RN subs and is all for it).

It's been hard to see the effect it's had on him and the girls over the years, but now they've both grown up they're surprisingly level headed and bright girls. All credit to my mate and no thanks at all to their mum.

What really fucks me off when I read things like this is that in 99.999999% of cases, the law always comes down on the side of the woman yet in reality they can be just as shite parents as men.

Another shit show to thank the leftie liberal snowflakes for.

 

[Jaws]

I 'took on' Donna and Toni as my own. They hardly ever saw ( or see ) their biological father.... In fact although we think he still lives in the town, truth is he could have died and none of us would know.
My daughter by Kathy hardly ever saw me as Kathy did not want contact.. Sorry to say she did not do a good job either and Natalie took a couple of wrong turns
But I am really glad to say she has turned out pretty good and although it took many years we are in touch albeit not close.
But she, Natalie , turned out to be a good mum and is a grandma too

What I am trying to say is kids are very resilient on the whole, and given half a chance will see what is right and wrong over time...
We grown ups do not give them half the credit they deserve

 

[ianrobbo1]

I've been in exactly the same place as Cougars "mate" knowing that the numerous judges and family solicitors would fall for the lying bitch'es lies, and they did, so I decided to play the long game, and to a very big degree it's worked, unfortunately not before she had screwed them up, they are all aware now but they are damaged.

 

[derek kelly]

We had the kids to sleep last night, this morning eldest two were sobbing as their father has them this weekend & they really don’t want to go, we discovered that the arsehole has covered their toys in sellotape to stop them making a noise, there is something really amiss when kids don’t want to stop with their father.

 

[Malone]

Can’t you get social services in?

 

[derek kelly]

Can’t you get social services in?

The problem is that he’s not doing anything illegal, he looks at it as his version of parenting, he’s basically a selfish bastard & he has to be put first & foremost in everything he does.

 

[Malone]

But if the kids are suffering mental abuse, surely they can come in?

 

[Cougar377]

Just needs a bit of coaching.... "please daddy don't hit me no more", "please daddy don't drink any more", I don't wanna watch that stuff on TV with the people with no clothes on" and "no daddy, I didn't blow the white powder all over the carpet".

 

[ogr1]

Just needs a bit of coaching.... "please daddy don't hit me no more", "please daddy don't drink any more", I don't wanna watch that stuff on TV with the people with no clothes on" and "no daddy, I didn't blow the white powder all over the carpet".

You bin snorting pig poo again?

 

[Cougar377]

You bin snorting pig poo again?

Think about it. Say any of those things within earshot of social services and there's a good chance he'll get a visit.

 

[ogr1]

Think about it. Say any of those things within earshot of social services and there's a good chance he'll get a visit.

Social services...bah!
What he needs is a little gentle persuasion with a baseball bat.

 

[JayTee]

Social services...bah!
What he needs is a little gentle persuasion with a baseball bat.

You’re right, In an ideal world, instant justice can be very effective and drives the point home to bastards like that.

 

[sr71caspar]

Social services...bah!
What he needs is a little gentle persuasion with a baseball bat.

You’re right, In an ideal world, instant justice can be very effective and drives the point home to bastards like that.

And then grand kids would not be allowed to see their violent, criminal grandparents.

Play and see the long game.


Don't be a knee. Jerk.